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Dear Readers, I’ve been blogging at Redbone Afropuff & Black GRITS since 2009. It’s been a great run, but as…
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I attended a conference session called, “Defusing the Power of Toxic Religion for Sexual Advocacy,†because I’m writing a memoir…
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Read the whole letter here. Also note: Carrie Fisher, her mother Debbie Reynolds, and Carolyn Miller-Cooper passed before my editor’s filing…
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On Sunday, I thought I shared a link to my new podcast, but it turns out I didn’t. Click here…
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A podcast featuring a 30-something black woman and her dad, talking about life. Click here to listen. (I hadn’t actually made…
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I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…
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Since I see no reason to add to the thousands of think pieces EBONY magazine’s November cover story, “Cosby vs. Cliff,â€Â undoubtedly…
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In my last column for NCR, I wrote about my somewhat surprising desire to find a church home in my…
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ME: I had a good life. My program wasn’t what I really wanted, and it was hard to do that…
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“He is guilty of self-confessed crimes against women such that we should break his albums, burn his tapes and scratch…
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I remember attending a Sunday school class several years ago in which the gentleness of God was the topic. I…
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On September 1, 2015, I will begin the master of fine arts program in creative writing at Rutgers University-Camden. This…
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I’ve seen an interesting photo on Facebook a couple of times in recent days: In case you can’t see it,…
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Last month, I unveiled my new personal mission statement: to help Black women and girls in my community discover…
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I envy Ann Bauer’s life. I began reading her piece for Salon, “‘Sponsored’ by my husband: Why it’s a…
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“If you had a little girl right now, how would you discipline her?” a friend asked me recently. “I don’t…
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Click here to listen to the music with the above photo Update 07/16/2014: I’m having some technical difficulties with the…
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I wrote my first post/essay of the day at about 2:00 in the afternoon on yet another day that I told…
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Last week I had the privilege of attending Freedom Dreams Freedom Now, a conference sponsored by the Social Justice Initiative at…
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Some context: 1. It’s really late. 10:57 central time. 2. I’m at a social justice conference structured to commemorate the…
I’m a little late on looking back, but I wrote 67 posts in 2013. Here’s my top 10 list of…
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In “The Comfort of a Sweet, Black, Dreadlocked Jesus,” I recalled the image of Jesus Christ as depicted in a painting…
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Yesterday’s Thanksgiving dinner—or whatever you might call the meal you eat at 3:00 p.m.—surprised me. First, the food was amazing….
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It’s the obligatory Thanksgiving Day post. Mine is composed of the few things I’m not only thankful for but happy…
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What makes me a feminist? I’ve been thinking about this question since my feminism history class last night. We were…
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