Being single shouldn’t feel like punishment, but for black church girls, it often does
The most hauntingly beautiful view I found at Eastern State Penitentiary. Interior, cell block 7.

How is a church like prison and being incarcerated like belonging to a church? Both have a way of asking,…

On my bicycle, at the intersection of blackness and womanhood, with feminism crossing diagonally
"Intersection." Zach Bonnell, via Flickr, Creative Commons

“If a woman says she was raped, I believe her, because for all she has to go through, why would…

The Summer Part is Over, but Writing for Freedom Continues
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  My Writing-For-Freedom Summer has come to an end. I learned under instructors I would like to take back to…

Fatherhood as a Process
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On Sunday, I thought I shared a link to my new podcast, but it turns out I didn’t. Click here…

Writing-For-Freedom Summer
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Today I begin a month-long series of summer workshops in essay and poetry that I hope will focus me for…

Black Father-Daughter Talk
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A podcast featuring a 30-something black woman and her dad, talking about life. Click here to listen. (I hadn’t actually made…

How the Orlando shooting is just like the Charleston massacre
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… there is nothing new under the sun. –Ecclesiastes 1:9 When I heard about 50 people at a gay nightclub…

Stunningly Beautiful Blackness
Original photograph by Flip Schulke, 1961

The morning after Muhammad Ali died, I couldn’t stop thinking about all the times he called himself “pretty.” A corner…

Light Women in Yellow
Image by Hervé Plattaeux, via Flickr Creative Commons

Yellow became my favorite color several years ago because by wearing it, I could prove that my skin is not…

What I’m Still Learning from Prince
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I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…

Slave narratives, respectability politics, black womanhood and choice
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You may ask for freedom only if you live above reproach. That was the message to enslaved black people in…

Yoga to Live by in 2016
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Faithfully 2015

Last night, as I was wracking my brain to come up with an end-of-year post that was reflective, inspirational and…

Jerk (An Angry Black Woman Poem)
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Jerk[i] For Dejerria Becton, Niya Kenny, the friend she stood up for, and for all Black women in defense of…

A Black Family Memoir from A Different World
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Since I see no reason to add to the thousands of think pieces EBONY magazine’s November cover story, “Cosby vs. Cliff,” undoubtedly…

A working definition of feminist part 1: Why not womanist?
Why

When Cameo King sent me questions about feminism to help me prepare for this broadcast, I had to take a…

A Piece of My ‘Good Girl’ Confession
Good Girl Radio

For today’s Faith & Feminism Friday, I refer you to a conversation recorded over the summer when I was honored…

Dear Future Husband, Please Forgive Me
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In a past life, I slut-shamed my future husband. Except I can’t really call it slut-shaming, because the standards of…

Radical Love is Intersectional
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I came across the above quote last semester in my academic research but returned to it in June, when the…

Recovering from Spiritual Perfectionism and Searching for Divine Guidance
Illustration: white boy on green chair, little brown dog sits next to him. Text reads: "My trouble was I had a mind. But I couldn't make it up."

In my last column for NCR, I wrote about my somewhat surprising desire to find a church home in my…

Shifting Focus
"Focus" by Michael Dales, via Flickr Creative Commons, some rights reserved

ME: I had a good life. My program wasn’t what I really wanted, and it was hard to do that…

A lesson from the Catholic Church: Demand change, believe survivors
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Similar to how priests who abused children were shifted from parish to parish but never disciplined. Systemic. https://t.co/87lcN7n0mN — Mariam…

Not Alone: Why I Wrote for ‘Faithfully Feminist’
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Around this time last year, I was parked in the lobby of a hotel in Tobago (the smaller island of…

Mad at Bill but Still Wishing for Cliff and Claire
Screenshot of a Cosby Show episode featuring Cliff and Claire snuggling on the sofa

“He is guilty of self-confessed crimes against women such that we should break his albums, burn his tapes and scratch…

Tenderness, Masculinity, Femininity and God
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I remember attending a Sunday school class several years ago in which the gentleness of God was the topic. I…

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