In a recent interview on All Things Considered, Vanessa Grigoriadis, author of Blurred Lines: Rethinking Sex, Power, and Consent on…
Like many people, I spent most of Saturday at my computer and on my phone reading and re-tweeting updates about…
Legal scholar and author Geoffrey Stone delivered the keynote address at the 2017 Woodhull Foundation Sexual Freedom Summit. Entitled, “Sex…
I attended a conference session called, “Defusing the Power of Toxic Religion for Sexual Advocacy,†because I’m writing a memoir…
At a table on the quiet side of the room, five black women are talking. Sex. Helping a friend…
Author’s Note: If you’re a steady reader of this blog, you know I worry about writing in obscurity forever. It’s…
Do you wear a wig around the house, even when you’re by yourself? I do, and I feel conflicted about…
How is a church like prison and being incarcerated like belonging to a church? Both have a way of asking,…
I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…
You may ask for freedom only if you live above reproach. That was the message to enslaved black people in…
In a past life, I slut-shamed my future husband. Except I can’t really call it slut-shaming, because the standards of…
“There are all boys at Stephanie’s (invented name) house, so you can’t turn up like you do here. You have…
One of the reasons I stopped working on my memoir was because when an agent strongly suggested I adapt my…
I hate when I think of a snappy comeback three weeks after a discussion ends. That’s happening right now, as…
I saw a lot of men up in arms on social media yesterday over a New Jersey Superior Court judge’s…
While my parents were teaching me to be the best student I could be, my Christian faith taught me to…
I’m a little late on looking back, but I wrote 67 posts in 2013. Here’s my top 10 list of…
I could probably blog for a year on all the issues brought up in this interview   with 19-year-old London art…
I got a surprise during a recent visit to a public library to use a computer. I looked up from…
April, the only character on Grey’s Anatomy who identifies as Christian and the only one who has conflicts about…
Is entertainment always glorification? I ponder this question almost every Thursday night as social media lights up with #gladiator hashtags…
I’ve been silent on this issue mainly because I’ve been too busy raising money to update this blog with responses…
Much has already been discussed about single African Americans’ dating desires based on findings from a poll released earlier this month that showed how black people feel…
Last Thursday, Jeff Chu, author of the new book, “Does Jesus Really Love Me? A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage in Search…