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In a recent interview on All Things Considered, Vanessa Grigoriadis, author of Blurred Lines: Rethinking Sex, Power, and Consent on…
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Like many people, I spent most of Saturday at my computer and on my phone reading and re-tweeting updates about…
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Legal scholar and author Geoffrey Stone delivered the keynote address at the 2017 Woodhull Foundation Sexual Freedom Summit. Entitled, “Sex…
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I attended a conference session called, “Defusing the Power of Toxic Religion for Sexual Advocacy,†because I’m writing a memoir…
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At a table on the quiet side of the room, five black women are talking. Sex. Helping a friend…
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Author’s Note: If you’re a steady reader of this blog, you know I worry about writing in obscurity forever. It’s…
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Do you wear a wig around the house, even when you’re by yourself? I do, and I feel conflicted about…
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How is a church like prison and being incarcerated like belonging to a church? Both have a way of asking,…
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I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…
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You may ask for freedom only if you live above reproach. That was the message to enslaved black people in…
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In a past life, I slut-shamed my future husband. Except I can’t really call it slut-shaming, because the standards of…
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“There are all boys at Stephanie’s (invented name) house, so you can’t turn up like you do here. You have…
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One of the reasons I stopped working on my memoir was because when an agent strongly suggested I adapt my…
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I hate when I think of a snappy comeback three weeks after a discussion ends. That’s happening right now, as…
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I saw a lot of men up in arms on social media yesterday over a New Jersey Superior Court judge’s…
While my parents were teaching me to be the best student I could be, my Christian faith taught me to…
I’m a little late on looking back, but I wrote 67 posts in 2013. Here’s my top 10 list of…
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I could probably blog for a year on all the issues brought up in this interview   with 19-year-old London art…
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I got a surprise during a recent visit to a public library to use a computer. I looked up from…
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April, the only character on Grey’s Anatomy who identifies as Christian and the only one who has conflicts about…
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Is entertainment always glorification? I ponder this question almost every Thursday night as social media lights up with #gladiator hashtags…
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I’ve been silent on this issue mainly because I’ve been too busy raising money to update this blog with responses…
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Much has already been discussed about single African Americans’ dating desires based on findings from a poll released earlier this month that showed how black people feel…
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Last Thursday, Jeff Chu, author of the new book, “Does Jesus Really Love Me? A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage in Search…
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