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Do you wear a wig around the house, even when you’re by yourself? I do, and I feel conflicted about…
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*Trigger warning* The week of August of 15, my news feed was filled with damning articles and opinions about Nate…
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For today’s Faith & Feminism Friday, I refer you to a conversation recorded over the summer when I was honored…
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In a past life, I slut-shamed my future husband. Except I can’t really call it slut-shaming, because the standards of…
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Blogger’s note: This post was originally published in the Courier-Journal on Sept. 28, 2014 and edited by Pam Platt. For the…
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Every once in a while, you hear something so offensive that it smacks you like a heat index of 102…
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During my Fulbright-National Geographic application process (from initial decision to apply to outcome), there were three specific times I seriously…
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I started writing this on a Saturday night after making a to-do list for Sunday that had me wondering, “Why…
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On Friday my mom and I drove up to the Evansville Museum to see the exhibit, “Posing Beauty in African…
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It’s rare you hear a speech other than a eulogy that’s sad, beautiful, encouraging and unexpected all at the…
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I started to title this post, “Braving the Bitch,†or “Free to Be Bitchy,†but I was afraid readers would…
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As I mentioned in my post about what I’m into, I watch Scandal religiously. I’ve found, however, that I don’t…
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Is entertainment always glorification? I ponder this question almost every Thursday night as social media lights up with #gladiator hashtags…
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In a few short months, I’ll have to make a very important decision. I’ll have to write a personal statement…
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***Update 6/11/2013: If writers of color need a space to gather, their books need a place to be sold, and…
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I wish the Academy Awards had segregated seating. They already sort of do; actors, producers and directors sit in the…
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I think Olivia Pope was wrong about herself on last night’s “Scandal.†I don’t think she wants painful love (which…
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When I saw the tweets below last night from Dr. Kaila Story, an assistant professor at the University of…
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On this last day of 2012, I’m sharing the moments from throughout the year that are most memorable to me…
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As a writer, I love subtext, and Shonda Rhimes does it brilliantly. The genius behind “Grey’s Anatomy†and “Scandal 
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Sometimes I read posts written as responses to something unusual and esoteric written online and wonder how the respondent found…
UPDATE 8/25: Watch the full broadcast here. I’ve promoted this appearance like crazy on Facebook and Twitter, but somehow, I…